Vanessa White

Relationship & Divorce Master Coach, Domestic Abuse Specialist & Transformation Expert

Introduction:

Vanessa White transforms lives by guiding individuals from relationship trauma to empowered futures. Having personally navigated the challenging journey from heartbreak to healing, she combines professional expertise with authentic lived experience to support clients through relationship uncertainty, separation, divorce, and recovery from toxic or abusive relationships. Her unique approach turns pain into power, helping clients not just survive but genuinely thrive beyond relationship breakdown.

Expertise & Impact:

An Accredited Relationship and Divorce Master Coach with specialist training through the DASH Charity (Domestic Abuse Stops Here), Vanessa brings exceptional sensitivity and practical wisdom to clients navigating complex emotional terrain. Her multidisciplinary background – including a BSc in Nutrition, experience as a registered dietician, work in education, and training as a Crisis Counsellor – provides her with a holistic understanding of wellbeing during life transitions. As a member of the International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence, she maintains the highest professional standards while delivering results-focused support.

Speaking Style:

Vanessa delivers compelling, compassionate presentations that blend professional insight with personal authenticity. Her ability to translate complex emotional challenges into clear, actionable strategies makes her talks both impactful and immediately valuable. Drawing from her own transformational journey, she connects genuinely with audiences, creating safe spaces to explore difficult topics while inspiring positive change and renewed hope. Her approachable, non-judgmental style makes even the most sensitive subjects accessible.

Signature Topics:

  • From Broken to Breakthrough: Transforming relationship trauma into personal power
  • Recognising the Red Flags: Understanding and escaping toxic relationship patterns
  • Beyond Survival – The Path to Thriving: Rebuilding identity and purpose after relationship breakdown
  • Parenting Through Transition: Supporting children during separation and creating healthy co-parenting dynamics
  • The Hidden Reality of Domestic Abuse: Recognising, responding to, and recovering from abusive relationships
  • Healthy Relationships by Design: Building relationships with strong boundaries, clear communication, and mutual respect
  • Dating with Confidence: Navigating new relationships after heartbreak with ease and authenticity
  • Turning Adversity into Opportunity: How personal challenges become catalysts for transformative growth

Additional Expertise:

  • Post-Separation Abuse Recognition and Response
  • Neurodivergent-Sensitive Support Approaches
  • Trauma-Informed Coaching Techniques
  • Holistic Wellbeing During Life Transitions
  • Science-Based Nutrition and Physical Health
  • Crisis Intervention and Emotional First Aid
  • Attachment Theory and Relationship Patterns
  • Confidence and Self-Esteem Rebuilding

Perfect For:

  • Women’s Empowerment Conferences
  • Corporate Wellbeing Programmes
  • Family Law Professional Events
  • Domestic Abuse Awareness Initiatives
  • Parenting Support Networks
  • Health and Wellbeing Summits
  • Personal Development Workshops
  • Professional Training for Support Services

Career Highlights:

  • Founded a successful coaching practice specialising in relationship and divorce recovery
  • Completed advanced Master Practitioner accreditation in Relationship and Divorce Coaching
  • Received specialist training with the DASH Charity on supporting survivors of domestic abuse
  • Featured in the January 2025 issue of ‘Closer’ magazine discussing “Is a happy divorce ever really possible”
  • Contributed expert insights on dating safety in ‘Best’ magazine’s January 2025 article “Are We Dating the Same Guy?”
  • Featured guest on BBC Radio Gloucestershire and Cotswolds Radio “Let’s Talk about Love” series
  • Regular podcast contributor on topics of relationship wellbeing and recovery
  • Developed innovative practical tools and techniques for relationship transition
  • Successfully raised two sets of twins as a single mother while building her business
  • Member of Resolution and the Employers Initiative on Domestic Abuse

Key Message:

“It’s not what happens to us in life that defines us, it’s what we do about it that makes us the person we are today.”

Impact Story:

“Vanessa has been an invaluable source of advice, motivation and guidance throughout an incredibly stressful and (at times) difficult breakup. I was incredibly anxious and emotionally overwhelmed when I first met Vanessa. I didn’t really know which way to turn. She quickly assessed my situation and was able to give me both practical advice and the emotional support that I needed. She is approachable, caring and has a natural gift for putting clients at ease from the start, I’d describe her as ‘bullet proof’! She doesn’t judge and I feel I can tell her anything. Every week she helps me to make positive steps forwards towards a happier future using a variety of brilliant tools and techniques that really work. Without her help I honestly don’t think I would have made the progress that I have in the last 6 weeks. I honestly can’t praise her enough.”
– Tina